Calm the chaos and reactivity and foster connection.

The Behavior Revolution Program provides everything you need to transform behavior. Learn how to help your neurodivergent child feel better so they can do better, while still honoring who they are and what they need.

Carol Stock Kranowitz
Carol Stock Kranowitz
Author of The Out-of-Sync Child
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The Behavior Revolution Program gets my highest praise and fullest endorsement. Employing their techniques, parents and kids learn to get in sync with one another while transforming their old chaotic interactions into newly connected ways.  
Robin L.
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“Your work is empowering and is making a REAL difference to families with complicated kids.”
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"I love you guys! You're always about helping us parents improve ourselves and our relationships with our children. Plus you keep it real!"
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“I really appreciate your insights and your passion. You have already helped me tremendously!”

What is the Behavior Revolution Program?

It's your roadmap to calm the chaos and enjoy your child again.

The Behavior Revolution Program includes our innovative Regulation Kit coupled with a step-by-step online course that teaches you how to finally connect with your neurodivergent kid and transform challenging behavior.

Raising kids with ADHD, autism, or anxiety is complex. Whether you’re a parent who just got the diagnosis or a family who has been struggling for some time now, The Behavior Revolution Program will transform your child’s behavior so they can self-regulate, calm big emotions, and connect with others.

Self-regulation is at the heart of many behavior challenges but it’s more than an essential life skill, it can become your child’s superpower.

The Behavior Revolution Program gets my highest praise and fullest endorsement. Families with neurodiverse children flourish under the guidance of wise and wonderful Penny Williams and Sarah Wayland. Employing their techniques, parents and kids learn to get in sync with one another while transforming their old chaotic interactions into newly connected ways.  

Carol Stock Kranowitz, M.A.

Author of The Out-of-Sync Child and

How will this program help my family?

It’s a customizable program where you’ll learn how to alleviate the morning frenzy, stop meltdowns before they start, help your child get things done, and more —  basically, craft a life you don’t feel you need to run away from.

These are the changes you’ll experience in your child:

The transformation is REAL!


to this:

Total chaos — almost daily intense outbursts, big emotions, and meltdowns.

Connection! Peaceful time with your child and your family that you all enjoy.

Feeling like the tools and strategies you’ve used to help your child self-regulate and connect with others don’t actually help.

Having the tailored tools and support you need to improve behavior and your child’s day-to-day experience.

Fear for the future your child will have.

Seeing potential and promise in your child’s future and knowing they will be ok. 

How does the program work?

The self-paced course is immediately available online. You can order the regulation kit from us or download and print them DIY. The course teaches you the fundamentals of our approach to behavior and then walks you through customizing and implementing the tools with your family. It's all inside the program!

Behavior Revolution Regulation Kit

A Customizable Set of Tools to Tackle Some of Your Child's Toughest Challenges

Self-Paced, On-Demand Course

With Forever Access and Closed-Captioning

Companion Workbook

Activities for Reflection and Action to Ignite Results

Group Coaching Meetings

We Meet 2x a Month for Questions & Support

Certificate of Completion

Use the Certificate to Verify that You've Taken This Parent Training

A Step-by-Step Guide

So You Don't Have to Figure It Out on Your Own

You can't get these tools anywhere else, because we created them for parents just like you! We see a lot of neurodivergent kids who struggle with emotions and regulation, which is really hard for them and their families.

So we put our combined experience into action and created the Behavior Wheel, Feelings Wheel, and Regulation Activities Cards to help you help your child develop the emotional intelligence and communication skills necessary to self-regulate.

(Play this video with sound on to get a short tour inside the program.)

My biggest win from the Behavior Revolution Program has been making peace with… making peace. My child’s challenges related to ADHD and ASD have the power to completely derail our family’s daily dynamics, but as I’ve learned more about why these challenges are so common in neurodiverse kids [through the program] and have taken the time to get really curious about what my child needs to feel safe and regulated in this very overwhelming world, two pretty amazing things have happened:

I’ve stopped putting my child in situations he “should” be able to navigate (in spite of evidence that he can’t, yet), and safety and trust have grown from fewer disastrous “should but can’t” situations which has given my son the space to regulate, learn, and to experience a growing snowball of small successes built on small successes.

Robin L.

Parent of a Child with ADHD and ASD

Is this program right for you?

If any of these sound like you, you’re exactly where you need to be.

The Bottom Line

If you're not yet the parent you want to be, with a calm household and a neurodivergent kid who feels good, then the Behavior Revolution Program will transform your lives — yours and your child's.

By using the Behavior Revolution System, you'll calm the chaos, teach your child to self-regulate, connect with your child, and create a family life you and your child deserve. You'll start each day with the confidence and ease of a parent who knows they've got this... and sees the greatness within their child.

We hear it all the time...

I’m trying so hard to help my child, but nothing seems to work. My child is struggling to regulate and manage big emotions. My child’s behavior is rude, disrespectful, oppositional, and defiant. My kid loses control and melts down over the smallest things.  We can’t go anywhere as a family because of our child’s behavior. don’t like my kid very much right now. I’m so exhausted. I can’t keep going like this. I’m just going through the motions, not really living. I didn’t sign up for THIS parenting.

You're here... so we imagine you're struggling too.

It's time to try something different.

You want to enjoy time with your child and help them succeed, but challenging behavior keeps getting in the way.

You feel like if you just knew what would actually help, if you had the right tools and guidance, you could finally find some peace and see your child succeed and grow.

It’s not that you’re not capable of being the parent your child needs. It’s that you just don’t have the right information, tools, strategies, and support… yet.

And we get it. We’ve been where you are. You don’t have to stay stuck feeling helpless and alone any longer.

Our Behavior Revolution Program was designed to ignite your family's metamorphosis.

Yes, you’re going to learn A LOT about why your kids are the way they are and how you can truly help them succeed and grow!

But, we’re not about to leave you to figure it out all on your own (like you’ve probably been doing). We have used our collective training and experience integrated with the best from the experts in the field, to create ONE customizable system to help you turn around behavior and restore peace to your family.

Remember, it’s not a matter of doing all the things. That’s overwhelming. It’s about focusing on the things that make the biggest difference! And we will walk you through every step of the process.

You have the power — all you need are the tools and the know-how.

Are you ready to finally ditch the challenging behavior and help your child be the best version of themselves they can be?

We truly believe that every child and every family can thrive with the right tools and know-how.

Every child and every family deserves to thrive.

The key is a science-backed understanding of behavior along with the tools and know-how to create change for your neurodivergent child. If you’ve read this far, you’re still searching for help, so we feel certain you haven’t quite landed on the right combination yet. 

And that’s why you’re stuck in this cycle of helplessness and dread as a parent. You’re just not fully equipped yet.

It's time to step out of this rut!

Get The Behavior Revolution Program today!


No-Risk 30 Days!

We know that these strategies will help your child. But, the best part is… you don’t have to take our word for it!
If you’re not 100% satisfied with the program, we will offer you a full refund within 30 days of purchase.

Still have unanswered questions?

The Behavior Revolution System and course is for caregivers raising kids with ADHD and/or autism and the co-existing conditions that often come with those diagnoses. This course is also good for parents of kids with significant anxiety, even without ADHD or autism.

We have designed this course to walk you through everything you need to use the tools and implement the system with your family effectively. Plus, we meet online monthly to support you. 

The course is designed for kids ages 4 and up. You will have to adapt some of the techniques depending on the age of your child. For example, sometimes teens won’t engage with you on something like the Feelings Poster. But you can implement it for yourself (so your kid can watch you trying to use the system) or you can have everyone in the family work on it so one child doesn’t feel singled out. Or you may not use the Feelings Poster at all, which won’t compromise the system.

We’re betting it is. This is the information and approach that has helped our own kids and families and so many of our clients. If you find that it’s not the right fit for you, we will honor that with a 30-day money-back guarantee.

Let us ask you a question: Do you have the time NOT to?  Struggling for years will definitely waste a lot of time, not to mention the toll on your mental and emotional health, your child’s mental and emotional health, and your relationship with your child. You can always make the time for what you feel is most important. Put in the time now to save loads of time (and sanity) over the long haul.

Who teaches The Behavior Revolution Program?

The Behavior Revolution was co-founded by Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. and Penny Williams:

Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. founded her company, Guiding Exceptional Parents, to help parents learn how to confidently and effectively help their children with ADHD, autism, learning disabilities, and other brain-based differences at home, at school, and in the community. In addition to hosting trainings, lecturing, and working with individual clients, Sarah is co-editor of the book “Technology Tools for Students with Autism,” and is the mother of two exceptional young adults.

Penny Williams coaches parents raising kids with ADHD, autism, and/or anxiety. She’s the parent of a young adult son with ADHD and autism, and the award-winning author of four books on parenting kids with ADHD, including “Boy Without Instructions” and “What to Expect When Parenting Children with ADHD.” Penny is the founder of and host of the Beautifully Complex Podcast.

Our Story

“I remember when my son was little and his meltdowns were volcanic. I did everything I could think of to try to help him during those times and nothing worked. I remember the helplessness I felt one evening when I had to put all my might into just walking out the door of the Goodwill store because my son was literally hanging on my coat tail and pulling against me with all his tiny might, screaming like I was physically hurting him.

I didn’t yet understand why the heck my son was acting that way, and that it was not within his control.

Once I realized that my son’s thinking brain was offline during a meltdown and his emotional and survival brains had taken over, I could finally improve our experience during a meltdown and even prevent them altogether.” — PENNY

“I have two neurodivergent kids and they couldn’t be more different. My older son’s teachers always told me he was “a good kid” — he never acted out or hurt another kid in frustration — but he did sleep through class sometimes. It wasn’t until he was a junior in high school that I realized he wasn’t sleeping — he was dysregulated and “frozen with fear!”

My younger son was, as we called it, a “much more effective self-advocate.” We always knew when he was having a hard time! After he put the school into lockdown for the fourth time, we started taking parenting classes and reading every book we could find.

What made the biggest difference was understanding how stress behavior looked for each of my kids. Once we knew what to look for, it was easier to help them.” — SARAH

That switch in how we thought about their behavior — from “they won’t do it” to “they can’t do it” — shifted everything for us. Not to mention our kids.

Once we recognized what was happening under the surface, we were able to help our kids through times of stress and were able to prevent most meltdowns altogether. We experienced some relief, a lot less anxiety, and more confidence in our parenting. Not to mention the improvement in our kids’ sense of competence, self-confidence, and the resulting transformation in their behavior.

Don't wait one more day to help your child.

The Behavior Revolution Program is currently closed.

BUT, we've got you!

Join the waitlist and get our free Starter Kit that includes our Does My Child Feel Safe & Why Does It Matter? masterclass and six downloadable tools and cheat sheets designed to help you create some quick wins and get your family transformation started.


Sound impossible?

Spoiler alert: it isn’t!

This may sound like a dream, but we want you to know that it’s 100% possible for you and your family. And we know that because we’ve been exactly where you are now.

Before you learn one more strategy that’s supposed to improve behavior, you must first understand who your kid is and why the heck they act the way they do. 

And that’s exactly what we’re going to do, together.

you're in the right place.

Challenging behavior sucks! This is what you DO about it.

Hey there! Don't miss the next enrollment.

Join the waitlist and be the first to know when registration opens again. AND, you’ll get our free Starter Kit that includes our Safety masterclass and six downloadable tools and cheat sheets designed to help you create some quick wins and get your family transformation started.


Do not spend one more day feeling incapable of helping your child.

No more helplessness.

No more wasting time.

A lot less worrying.

We hear it all the time...

Disclaimer: The Behavior Revolution aims to support parents and kids navigating challenging behavior, ADHD, and autism, and provides tools to assist you in decoding behavior and helping your child build their emotional intelligence and regulate. While our content is backed by scientific research, we are not mental health professionals. We cannot guarantee behavioral outcomes of any kind. If you ever feel you or your child needs added mental health support, we encourage you to contact your physician or therapist for professional advice.