Life-changing parenting

for your neurodiverse family.

We help you celebrate and support your child through neuroscience-backed insights, hard-won strategies, compassion, and guidance. We’ve helped thousands of families across the globe achieve improvement. Let us help your family too.

We can help you create meaningful change.

Incorporate brain-science and the mind-body connection to improve behavior.

There are so many challenges when it comes to raising kids with ADHD and/or autism. And the combination of struggles is unique to each family. That's why we've created an integrated behavior system that offers the tools and guidance needed for parents of kids with ADHD or autism to connect with your challenging kid(s), improve behavior, and finally see your child thrive.

Enhance your understanding of your child and the ADHD/autism experience.​

ADHD and autism are more complex than the diagnostic criteria. Follow our lead on a deep dive into the hidden layers and complexities to better understand your child's day-to-day experience. This understanding means you will support your child in a more authentic, empowering, and effective way, while also honoring their neurodiversity and sense of self. 

Get the support and guidance you need to make change happen in your family.

Transforming behavior requires a complex perspective and approach. We provide a blueprint to identify triggers, the knowledge and perspective necessary to understand your child's response, strategies to help kids regulate, a game plan to teach lagging skills, the know-how to keep yourself calm to respond rather than react, and the guidance to put it all into practice and get results. 

We're here when you need .

The struggle is real...

but it doesn't have to persist.

Being a kid is harder than ever and ADHD and autism compound the challenges. Helping your kids navigate all those challenges is confusing and frustrating for even the most dedicated parent. Your kid’s challenges compound into parenting challenges. 

Maybe you’ve tried the standard parenting approaches with little to no progress. You’re convinced you must be missing something. You wonder if you’re the right parent for the job. You’re trying so hard and your child’s behavior still isn’t improving.

You clearly need to try something different.

That's where we come in!

After over a decade raising our own boys with ADHD and autism, obsessively researching neurodiversity, and helping other families like ours, we came to the clear conclusion that the foundation for improvement is recognizing that behavior is a signal. It’s communicating a struggle, and that the child doesn’t feel safe. Sometimes the behavior is intentional, but more often it’s an automatic response from the brain — a brain that often has a sensitized stress response to begin with.

Change the way you think about behavior...

and change your family.

Behavior is communication! Your child may not have the skills to tell you directly what they need or what is wrong. They also may not have the skills to handle or manage big emotions.
When faced with challenging behavior, consider your child’s developmental level and intention. While the behavior may feel personal on the surface, your child is actually struggling.
Every child deserves to feel confident and competent. When they feel good and have the necessary skills, they can do good.
The human nervous system is exquisitely tuned to detect danger. And when your child doesn’t feel seen, heard, or safe, their neurology shifts into fight, flight, or freeze.
A parent’s mindset guides the journey. Unconditional love, connection, and collaboration are significant and empower a strong parent-child relationship.
We are all beautifully complex. No one is good or bad, just marvelously imperfect. We recognize that understanding and loving our kids just the way they are is the first step to creating a life where they can thrive.

​Get the Entire Manifesto of the Neurodiverse Family

Your family’s success depends a great deal on your mindset. The Manifesto of the Neurodiverse Family outlines the belief system you need to adopt to help your child succeed and your family thrive.

Don't waste one more day!

Make change now.

Your intention is to raise successful, happy adults, of course. We know you long for a peaceful, calm family. You crave a life you don’t feel like you need to escape from, and want the same for your kids.

Any time is the right time to make a shift and try something new… but knowing the right direction to take is anything but easy, and not every strategy is successful for every neurodiverse child.

We offer the clarity around brain science, the nervous system, and human behavior necessary to help your child and your family thrive. 

Let's liberate your neurodiverse family.

“Your work is empowering and is making a REAL difference to families with complicated kids.”

Robin L.

Parent

"I love you guys! You're always about helping us parents improve ourselves and our relationships with our children. Plus you keep it real!"

Charlene

Parent

"I admire Penny & Sarah’s wealth of knowledge. Their heart is in the perfect place."

Vanessa R.

Parent

“I am in admiration and awe of all that you are doing to help us navigate the many challenges we face as parents of children with ADHD and/ or autism. Your words of wisdom and honesty have really supported me with my son, as well as the useful, evidence-based information you offer from professionals."

Coleen F.

Parent

“I listened to the podcast [your] Behavior Revolution in my car alone, pumping my fist and saying, 'YES!!!' A rising tide really lifts all ships and whatever we can all do to help guide parents through the rough patches on this journey, the better.”

Jenn Dryer

Co-founder, Raising Orchid Kids

“Dr. Wayland helped me feel more empowered and encouraged — validating my concerns and offering very real help to address my child’s challenges."

Vera N.

Parent

“You're the first of all the people we sought help from that really ‘gets it.’ Thank you, Penny!”

Maureen M.

Parent

“As a parent, I often feel like no one understands. But these people get it!”

Donita T.

Parent

Let's create a family life you don't feel like you need a vacation from.

There are many challenges when it comes to raising neurodivergent kids. And the combination of struggles is unique to each family. That’s why we’ve created an integrated behavior system that offers the tools and guidance needed for parents of kids with ADHD or autism to connect with your kid(s), improve behavior, and finally see your child thrive.

It is time to start seeing results!

INTRODUCING

The Behavior Revolution System & Course

Create the life you crave for your child, and your family.

The Behavior Revolution Program is a combination of the best from the experts in the field with our collective training and experience to offer you ONE customizable, step-by-step system to address behavior — a system that actually works for kids with ADHD or autism.

You’ll get the tools and know-how necessary to help your child change challenging behavior, so you can ditch the helpless feelings and reclaim joy for your family.

Be the spark in your child's world.

Elevate your parenting!

Start learning and connecting now.

The Behavior Revolution is all about one thing: providing the knowledge and parent training necessary to empower you to empower your child for success.

science

Incorporate brain-science and the mind-body connection to improve behavior.

Every day scientists and researchers are uncovering more about the mind-body connection. At The Behavior Revolution, we combine psychology, polyvagal theory, behavior as communication, and specifics of the ADHD brain and the autistic brain to understand and effectively address the root of behavior, to improve behavior.

insights

Enhance your understanding of your child and the ADHD/autism experience.

ADHD and autism are more complex than the diagnostic criteria. Follow our lead on a deep dive into the hidden layers and complexities of ADHD and autism to better understand your child’s day-to-day experience. This understanding means you will support your child in a more authentic, empowering and effective way. 

guidance

Get the support and guidance you need to make change happen in your family.

Successfully addressing behavior requires a complex perspective and approach. At The Behavior Revolution, we provide a blueprint to identify triggers, the knowledge and perspective necessary to understand your child’s response, strategies to help kids regulate, a game plan to teach lagging skills, strategies to keep yourself calm and respond to your child, rather than react, and the guidance to put it all into practice and see results. 

Understand Your Child & Their Brain

Get the insights and knowledge necessary to understand your child, and their behavior.

 

Incorporate brain-science and the mind-body connection to improve behavior.

There are so many challenges when it comes to raising kids with ADHD and/or autism. And the combination of struggles is unique to each family. That's why we've created an integrated behavior system that offers the tools and guidance needed for parents of kids with ADHD or autism to connect with your challenging kid(s), improve behavior, and finally see your child thrive.

Get Proven Tools & Strategies

Learn brain science-backed approaches to transform challenging behavior.

Have a Tailored Roadmap for Success

Find success with the guidance you need to make change happen for your child and your family.

We see your struggle.

Are you trying to improve behavior but seeing little to no results?

Is your child struggling to regulate and manage his or her emotions?

Are you struggling to know how to help your child in school?

Do you feel unequipped to handle neurodifferences and the teen years in one child?

Does your child struggle socially with friendships and connection?

Let's create a family life you don't feel like you need a vacation from.

There are so many challenges when it comes to raising kids with ADHD and/or autism. And the combination of struggles is unique to each family. That’s why we’ve created an integrated behavior system that offers the tools and guidance needed for parents of kids with ADHD or autism to connect with your challenging kid(s), improve behavior, and finally see your child thrive.

It is time to start seeing results!

INTRODUCING

The Behavior Revolution System & Course

Create the life you crave for your child, and your family.

The Behavior Revolution Program is a combination of the best from the experts in the field with our collective training and experience to offer you ONE customizable, step-by-step system to address behavior — a system that actually works for kids with ADHD or autism.

You’ll get the tools and know-how necessary to help your child change their challenging behavior, so you can ditch the helpless feelings and reclaim joy for your family.

Change the way you think about behavior...

and change your family.

Kids do well if they can. (Parents too!)

Every child deserves to feel confident and competent. When they feel good and have the necessary skills, they can do good.

Behavior is communication.

Your child may not have the skills to tell you directly what they need or what is wrong. They also may not have the skills to handle or manage big emotions.

Changing behavior often requires a change in your parenting.

A parent’s mindset guides the journey. Unconditional love, connection, and collaboration are significant and empower a strong parent-child relationship.

Your child isn't giving you a hard time, your child is having a hard time.

When faced with challenging behavior, consider your child’s developmental level and intention. While the behavior may feel personal on the surface, your child is actually struggling.

Disruptive behavior is a signal that your child is feeling unsafe.

The human nervous system is exquisitely tuned to detect danger. And when your child doesn’t feel seen, heard, or safe, their neurology shifts into fight, flight, or freeze.

Every child and every family can thrive.

We are all beautifully complex. No one is good or bad, just marvelously imperfect. We recognize that understanding and loving our kids just the way they are is the first step to creating a life where they can thrive.

You can help your child to feel better and do better.

We'll show you how in this free masterclass, THE BEHAVIOR REVOLUTION: Understand your child's behavior and learn how to improve it compassionately and successfully, while honoring their neurodiversity.

CLICK HERE TO WATCH OUR FREE MASTERCLASS!